Anger

Defeat your anger before it starts defeating you..

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Komal Mittal
Komal Mittal 22 Jun, 2020 | 2 mins read
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If you want to destroy your enemy first destroy your anger. It is your biggest enemy living inside yourself.

It is not that anger is always bad. Everything in this world has two aspects, so does anger have. It's upto us that we opt the positive side or the negative one. Now the question is, Why we get angry? Because we get hurt and Why we get hurt from other's deeds? Because we have expectations from them. So the root cause of anger is EXPECTATIONS. 

If we leave this unnecessary habit of expecting something in return for our good deed we are inviting anger. Because expectations may or may not be fulfilled but they can never satisfy us. And this dissatisfaction gives emergence to anger.

This anger that we show towards others is very dangerous as it can kill a healthy relationship. It can make you even more frustrated or dissatisfied with yourself and this world. 

But as stated above anger has two aspects, the negative one we experience in our daily life but the positive aspect of anger is experienced only by a few people. When someone accuses us for being unsuccessful in life or anything which they have better than us we get angry on that person and start cursing our life, destiny and god. But what if we use that anger that energy to work upon what we don't have. It would be a fantastic experience. 

Only then we will take our anger in a right direction and path towards our real goal.

Once we start controlling the aspect of our anger, we can achieve anything in their life.


"Control your ANGER!

Before,

Your ANGER starts controlling YOU!!!"

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  • Anshi Srivastava ยท 4 years ago last edited 4 years ago

    True ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

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