Body shaming

     Stop body shaming ,please.

It's noting new in our society.Everyone knows about it.(I guess).But mostly they think about it for a while,then they forget.I am a drama addict.So as much as I have seen,in the dramas the fat lead will loose weight and take revenge.Or else in the future they will appear in a perfect body. Wait a minute, what is a 'Perfect body'?! It's the image they have created.The girl/boy who is skinniest ..she/he has the perfect body.Also, we criticize celebrities when they get fat.

Why do we think this?Why can't we accept them as they are?(Bcz in the movies/seriese they show the leads with skinny bodies and they are perfect then.)

Huh..Writing more about this won't help us to stop thinking like that.Even if you are reading this,you'll forget about it soon. But still I wanna write about this.

I live in Bangladesh.Not sure about other Asian countries...but in Bangladesh it's very common.Like everyone likes a skinny girl . When we see a fat girl with a handsome/six pack boy we think like,must be arranged,must be for money,whyyy etc. But we feel like it's normal to see a fat boy with a skinny girl(not sure some thinks the girl is after his money).Whatever,mainly girls are being body shammed the most. As I have seen,no boy wants to marry a fat girl. 'Fat' has become a swear word .(Like some of my classmates insulted a teacher calling her 'mutki ek number r.'-means number one fatty.

And if you become too skinny, they will criticize you for being that.They want you to be healthy,but also not fat and also not too skinny. 

 I am not saying that losing weight is bad.Sometimes overweight causes health problems,then you must lose weight.But you don't need to lose weight to look beautiful!How can I prove that you're beautiful the way you are!!!!Many thinks that they are ugly because they are fat.One of my friend used to cry every night because she thought that she's ugly( she was a little fat).Now she has gotten skinner and she's very happy now.oKAY,but why the hell she thought that she was ugly?I explained to her and she was like, you won't understand my pain. But I can see! The pain of those who don't have the body like Kylie Jenner/Millie Bobby Brown. Some of my aunties praise my body, but they tell my sister to lose weight. When I told them why they are saying they were like....what is the problem of this girl?! Body shaming is causing many teenagers(specially girls) losing their love for themselves and lowering their self esteem.

I don't know the measures to stop body shaming.But I only wrote my thoughts about this.Now you can say,'huh, just like others...she just wrote about it like others..' But tell me if you know any measure of this problem. I really don't know. I tried to stop body shaming in my family,but yes..it didn't work.I really wanna stop this(can't see my fav persons suffer anymore).Many artists and writers are trying to remove body shaming in our society ,just don't know that they are succeed or not.

(My writing is messy, I know.by My English is weak, too. I'm really sorry about that.)